If you’re a parent, brother, sister, aunt, uncle, grandparent, or friend, you probably know someone who was part of Graduation 2012. And at this time of year, young, degree-holding students are being bombarded with tips and advice during countless graduation speeches across the country.
So in a Natural-Habitat-Adventures-kind-of-way, I’d like to offer my own list of things I’d tell new grads on how to move forward from this milestone in life.
Earlier this year, I visited one of the world’s most natural and pristine places: the Galápagos Islands. While I was amazed by the countless facts I learned about the exceptional flora and fauna there, I also picked up a few things about life in general.
Ten Things the Galápagos Islands Taught Me
1. Don’t fear what’s new, even if it looks odd. Humans are a relatively recent arrival to the Galápagos; therefore, the wildlife has no fear of us. We are merely a curiosity. Birds and reptiles will often walk right across the toes of your sandals if you stay still. Try to channel that curiosity — not the fear — when you run into something different from what you’re familiar with.
2. Having the “latest” and the “biggest” isn’t always better. On a few of the islands, I ran into one woman (from a different boat than mine) who was carrying a 500 mm lens. It was heavy and long, and I wondered why anyone would need such a huge lens in a place where the animals don’t move away from you. I thought perhaps she had purchased it for her once-in-a-lifetime trip, so she was going to use it — no matter what. But it certainly wasn’t necessary, and she must have recognized that with the first island stop. Yet she still carried it around. The next time you think you must have that thing you’re eyeing, see first if what you already have will suffice; no one needs to be burdened with extra “baggage.”
3. You don’t have to always follow the pack to have a great time. I’m not much of a snorkeler — or swimmer, for that matter. And yet, here I was, in one of the largest marine reserves in the world. Almost every day during two snorkeling opportunities, I opted instead to explore the beach and tide pools. I saw and photographed the life above, while my shipmates got familiar with the creatures below. When we got back together in the evening to share what we saw, the variety in our perspectives made for some exciting conversation. We all experienced the Galápagos in different ways. That’s okay.
4. A gloomy morning sky doesn’t portend a dark day. Sometimes, our mornings would dawn dark and gray, and I would expect rain. But it never fell; not a drop. So let go of what you think is going to happen and just enjoy what is happening. You really don’t know what’s coming next.
5. Hurrying through life isn’t the best strategy. Sometimes it’s best to just stop and chew on something a while before making any quick moves. I learned that from a Galápagos giant tortoise.
6. Sometimes, you’ve just got to dance. We’ve all heard this one before. But it’s so true and bears repeating. Dance — even if you have two big, blue, left feet.
7. You’re a lot stronger than you think, especially when you’re awed by nature. It got very hot in the Galápagos, and sometimes I wondered if taking another hike or spending more hours on the beach would be worth it. Should I stay on the boat this time or go ashore? But I always did venture out, and I was always glad I did. I either met a playful sea lion or saw hundreds of scuttling Sally Lightfoot crabs in all their neon colors. So go ahead and challenge yourself: Go on that long hike or jump in the kayak. The payoff — an unbelievable view or an awesome animal encounter — might just be over the next hill or riffle. Nature can be a great motivator.
8. In the smallest of spaces, it’s possible to find solitude. Boats in the Galápagos tend to be small, and all your meals are taken communally. Yet, in the early morning hours and late evenings, I would go to the top deck and watch the stars. Rarely, did I find anyone else out.
9. Boundary lines are imaginary. On our trip through the islands, our ship crossed the Equator three times. Whenever the captain announced that we’d be doing it, I’d run to the top deck to look out at the ocean. There were no lines, of course. The geographical and political boundaries we draw are artificial and don’t exist in nature.
10. Sunburns hurt, so wear sunscreen. This might be the second most popular piece of advice for new graduates. And speaking of the Equator, the sunburns you get on the front of your legs — in the place between where your shorts stop and your sandals begin — hurt. Even the little spots between your sandal straps can burn like the dickens. Always, always wear sunscreen.
There are a few other things I learned in the Galápagos, too; such as when you’re snorkeling for the first time and waves bump you up against coral, you bleed. And 100-percent cotton isn’t the best fabric for keeping you cool.
But I’ll save those for Graduation 2013.
Here’s to finding your true places and natural habitats,
CandyCandice Gaukel Andrews.